Is being able to forget and forgive allow us to take on a new role with no repetition of mistakes? If your heart is still lingering on doubts of trust, confident and faith unable to lead you to the light of happiness? It has been said that a painful and lonely soul can be healed by a new love. How do we put it in a situation where lingering pain is still in the most inner part of the heart and soul? New role, new feeling, new heartbeat I believe will be able to bandage the exposed flesh and overcome the fear of falling. Take on chances in life will have nothing to lose but beneficial as I think it will always be a learning chapter in life. Nobody in this earth is a replica of you. No matter how evil or angel one can be, there must be a learning episode from this person.
kei is attending PMC, same time as ecstasy. They brought up interesting questions on how you are mentally and preparing to accept the whole of your going to be lifetime spouse. It has never dawned on me the importance of such a course until stepping in this school. PMC can help couples to understand better and also to let you see if both of you are meant for each other. Kei told me the best time to embark on a journey is to be able to overcome whatever fear and hatred you are having now. It is like being fair to yourself and your partner. Of course, you will never know when the journey will set off unless you give it a try. I am still thinking of what she had said to me. 3 questions to ponder on for the upcoming brides and groom. I have a 'NO' answer to one of the questions based on the past r/s. Here it goes:
Do you want to bear his child?
Do you want a child that is exactly like him?
Do you want to spend the rest of your life with him even though he has shown no signs of changing for the better?
If you have 1 'NO', the marriage is still workable but got to work on it. If you have 2 'NOs', perhaps reflect a little bit more on this relationship. If all the answers are 'NO', it is time to talk. These are just one tiny part of the course.
Love is so sacred and too deep to define. It is impossible to promise too.