幸福的定义是什么？
I really wonder and ponder over this question today. I do not know how to answer.
Do u consider having a few good friends are enough to sustain a friendship who will be there for u at anytime of the day? Maybe it applies to some but not all. I think mine existed. I guess happiness and fortunate is there for me.
How about LOVE? Being in love is the best thing in the world. U can make it as sweet as possible and feel being loved by someone. He/she can promise to give u everything, includig the impossible so long as u have faith in each other. Does that mean we want love is more important than bread? Or both of the love n bread arequally important? I often wonder and once again, in search of a balance in these two criteria. No, it should include friendship too. They can never be equal. U can only please one over the other.
I sound very pessimistic and disappointed, right? I am unable to help it. I tried to convince myself all these years, from the day I know what I am doing. It has never been the way I want things to be. I guess I am just one hard candy to deal with. Nobody knows what I want, I feel, I lack in. Argh......I declare my expectation is higher, much higher than I can reach. Do the people ard me try to understand me? Have they put in effort to find out the real me? Have they thought they had? What can I do to lower down the expects when I see disappointment in people as and when in life? 'Come on, face it', I tell myself. Live through it and it will be alright. Sometimes it works to make myself feel happier. Love myself the most could be the answer to the question, or else, there is no answer. NO answer.